We went to a wedding this weekend, by ourselves. This is the first time since the baby was born that I really relaxed, didn't worry about the baby (she was with my mom) and had fun.

Yes, there were drinks involved. Yes, it was more than one. I looked at my husband and I saw the face that I dated. Before we were married, before we had the muffin our only job was to make each other happy. In his face it was just happiness. There was no strain of earning a living, of finishing grad school, of being the "perfect" parent and husband.

Needless to say it was great. So if you are having a wedding make sure you invite us, we'll be the smiling drinkers in the back.